Doa utk adik ahmad adam syukri....

Sedihnya tgk keadaan adik Ahmad Adam Syukri....
Semoga Allah meringankan beban dan kesakitan yg ditanggung oleh anak kecil ini.....
semoga Allah memberi kekuatan utk ayah dan ibu adam
Dan semoga Allah mempermudahkan segala urusan keluarga kecil ini...amiiinnnnn
:'(
:'(
Tak tahan tgk perubahan adik adam....sedihnyaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..........

masa sekolah dulu...

Haritu Aiman ada tunjuk hasil seni dia kat sekolah...mostly his drawings on cars. mcm2 jenis kereta dia lukis, kereta lumba, kereta polis, bas, big foot. lepas tu ada jugak yg dia lukis satu family; ada mama, babah, aiman & adik...how sweet (lupa nk amik gambar lukisan2 dia).
Kat fridge tu penuh dgn karya seni aiman... nak tunggu turn adik pulak nanti, tatau bila...tapi haritu dah berjaya conteng lantai ngan crayon. syabas anakku! buat graffiti kat lantai dapur, nasib baik boleh padam. tu belum masuk bab memunggah barang dlm almari. suka benor kamu masuk dapur ye nak, bagus la. hopefully bila dah besar nnti, rajin jugak tolong babah mama kat dapur ;)
Ok enough about that....
Tadi tetiba je teringat kelas seni masa zaman sekolah dahulu kala. Saya suka melukis. Dulu2 sukaaaa sangat lukis gambar orang pakai baju berfesyen2. kunun2 dlm hati nk jadi fashion designer, eceh!! (and yes, masa saya kecik2 dulu penah ada cita2 nak jadi cashier, sebab seronok kira duit..ngeeeee $$$$).
Tapi saya suka melukis je (sketching actually), tak suka mewarna..sebab bila masuk tang kaler2, huduh jadi lukisan tu).
Masa sekolah rendah dulu selalu beli satu coloring book ni, ala2 anime lukisannya. selalunya apek cina-bawak basikal-jual junkfood-depan sekolah pun ada jual. gambar mcm2 (mostly karakter org). aim: kaler secantik yg boleh. so kat kelas, masing2 tunjuk buku mewarna, pastu siap cop (tulis nama kat page situ), kira page tu kita book utk kaler nanti. habis sekolah, pinjam buku kawan tu, balik umah kaler2, esok bagi balik kat kawan. pastu gilir2 kaler dan kaler dan kaler lagi...muahahahaha.

~cantik betul anime ni, berhari2 pinjam coloring book member utk kaler satu page aje pon!~

 and yes, sapa2 yg sezaman dgn saya mesti pernah main paper doll. ingat lagi? patung orang daripada kertas tebal, lepas tu siap ada mcm2 jenis baju yg kita blh tukar2 (juga dari kertas). nak beli Barbie tak mampu..sob sob sob....dulu ada kawan pernah ckp, malam2 patung kertas tu dia hidup. so kalau tak nak bagi dia hidup, kat belah belakang tu kena tulis perkataan "Allah". apakah????!!  huihhh gigih mak kumpul semua paper doll tu tulis kat blkg dia....hahahaha ;D
selalunya paper doll tu seksi...pakai two pieces jer...pastu pilihan baju sangatlah banyak..rambang mata weh! pastu masa main, dok berangan dgn member2...kalau laaa kita ada baju mcm ni!

~lebih kurang mcm ni la paper doll yg kitorg main....**eh eh sailormoon!! i like!! (pic source: google ler)~

oh bestnya sekolah time tu, maklum la all girls school. mainan pun biasanya bermusim... bila musim main paper doll, semeeeee main paper doll, bila musim main getah, berjela2 rakyat main getah kat padang sekolah, time main batu seremban, ada buat bisnes amik upah buat batu seremban (tapi mak dia yg tukang buat, dia tukang amik order je). bestnyaaaaaaaa.....

100 ways to be kind to your child by Arissa Marquess

I find this very interesting (got it from a friend's fb):

100 ways to be kind to your child by Alissa Marquess on February 13, 2012 (link)

Tell to your child:

1. I love you.
2. love you no matter what.
3. I love you even when you are angry at me.
4. I love you even when I am angry with you.
5. I love you when you are far way.  My love for you can reach you wherever you are.
6. If I could pick any 4 year old (5 year old, 6 year old…) in the whole wide world, I’d pick you.
7. I love you to the moon and then around the stars and back again.
8. Thank you.
9. I enjoyed playing with you today.
10. My favorite part of the day was when I was with you and we were _______.

Tell them:
11. The story of their birth or adoption.
12. About how you cuddled them when they were a baby.
13. The story of how you chose their name.
14. A story about yourself when you were their age.
15. A story about how their grandparents met.
16. What your favorite color is.
17. That sometimes you struggle too.
18. That when you’re holding hands and you give three squeezes, it’s a secret code that means, “I love you”.
19. What the plan is.
20. What you’re doing right now.

Play:
21. Freeze Tag
22. Uno
23. Crazy 8s
24. Gin Rummy
25. Memory
26. Go Fish
27. I Spy- especially when you’re tired of driving and feel snappish
28. Catch

Pretend:
29. To catch their kiss and put it on your cheek.
30. That their tickle tank is empty and you have to fill it.
31. That their high five is so powerful it nearly knocks you over.
32. That you are super ticklish.
33. That you are explorers in the amazing new world of your backyard.
34. That it’s party day!  Decorate for no reason!

Try:
35. To get enough sleep.
36. To drink enough water.
37. To eat decent food.
38. Wearing earrings, or whatever makes you feel pretty.
39. Calling a friend the next time you feel like you are about to lose it with the kids.
40. Giving a gentle touch to show approval, rather than saying something.
41. Dancing in the kitchen.
42. To get your kids to bop to the music with you in the car.
43. Showing your kids that you can do a somersault or handstand or a cartwheel.
44. Keeping that sigh to yourself.  Just jump in and help clean up cheerfully.
45. Using a kind voice, even if you have to fake it.

Read:
46. A book of silly poems.
47. A book and then act it out. (Like “I’m going on a Bear Hunt”)
48. Your favorite childhood book to them.
49. When the afternoon is starting to go astray.
50. Outside under a tree.
51. In the library kids corner.
52. The comic book they love that you’re not so hot on.
53. About age appropriate behavior so you can keep your expectations realistic.

Listen:
54. To your child in the car.
55. To that Lego description, and think how important it is to your child.
56. For that question that indicates your child really needs your input.
57. One second longer than you think you have patience for.
58. For the feelings behind your child’s words.

Ask:
59. Why do you think that happens?
60. What do you think would happen if______?
61. How shall we find out?
62. What are you thinking about?
63. What was your favorite part of the day?
64. What do you think this tastes like?

Show:
65. Your child how to do something instead of banning them from it.
66. How to whistle with a blade of grass.
67. How to shuffle cards- make a bridge if you can!
68. How to cut food.
69. How to fold laundry.
70. How to look up information when you don’t know the answer.
71. Affection to your spouse.
72. That taking care of yourself is important.

Take Time:
73. To watch construction sites.
74. To look at the birds.
75. To allow your child to help you dump ingredients in the bowl.
76. To walk places together.
77. To dig in the dirt together.
78. To do a task at your child’s pace.
79. To just sit with you child while they play.

Trust:
80. That your child is capable.
81. That you are the right parent for your child.
82. That you are enough.
83. That you can do what is right for your family.

Delight your child:
84. Clean your child’s room as a surprise.
85. Put chocolate chips in the pancakes.
86. Put a love note in their lunch.
87. Make their snack into a smile face shape.
88. Make sounds effects while you help them do something.
89. Sit on the floor with them to play.

Let Go:
90. Of the guilt.
91. Of how you thought it was going to be.
92. Of your need to be right.

Give:
93. A look with Kind Eyes to your child.
94. A smile when your child walks into the room.
95. A kind touch back when your child touches you.
96. The chance to connect before you correct so that your child can actually hear your words.
97. Your child a chance to work out their frustrations before helping them.
98. A bath when the day feels long.
99. A hug.
100. You get to choose the next one!  What is your favorite way to be kind to your child?

Cekup kepala

Sekarang ni, mcm2 fesyen tudung org dok pakai...nama pun meriah...tudung syria, tudung bawal, tudung ariani (kenapakah anda sangat mahal?), tudung ekin, tudung fareeda lah, tudung obama lah,...style pun mcm2 style; hana tajima lah, laila isabela lah (eh ada ke?)...

ni rupanya hana tajima yg glamer tu.. mix, patut la cantik. eh hana, how do u wear that tudung of yours lah?

dulu2 zaman 60-70an, org takde la bertudung sangat. kalau ada pun yg gaya mak itik tu, pakai scarft empat segi then ikat kat bawah dagu tu..pastu pakai kebaya ketat ;D

biasanya makcik2 jual kuih suka pakai mcm ni (source: kak senduk)

dulu2 cikgu sekolah pun ramai yg pakai scarf mcm ni...(source: kak senduk)

datin norjuma ni, pakai apa pun sweet :)

 As time goes by,  org pun start pakai tudung bawal. mcm2 warna, mcm2 corak ada. lepas tu ada yg bersulam, ada yg berlabuci2, bermanik bagai...time student dulu, utk dptkan effect 'awning' kalau pakai tudung bawal, harus le satu part kat tudung bawal itu dililinkan lepas tu iron, baru la keras dan tak terkelepek andai kata ada angin sepoi2 bahasa bertiup. Ada jugak member yg letak plastik keras kat awning tu, kreatif. Yg tu kompem, kalau ada ribut taufan harus maintain ke-awning-an nya... ;)

cantik corak tudung bawal nih

tudung bawal dual tone (eh ye ke?)

Lepas tu datang pulak tudung mak indon, yg main cekup tu... ada yg panggil tudung express/emergency, sebab tak payah nk gosok, tak perlu pakai pin; u pakai and go! Mula2 keluar, awning dia jenis yg tebal tu (bukan mcm sekarang, nipis). kalu pakai memang huk oloh mcm indon...hahahahaha.....pastu ada bling2, berlabuci bersulam (standard lah).

ada lagi tak org pakai tudung indon ni?

bila dah up sket, org mula jadi lagi kreatif, tudung indon went thru such a transformation, that the current ones are sooooo much better! ada yg material guna lycra, guna satin silk, guna chiffon, cotton...corak pun cantik2.
ada yg sampai 2-3 layer (esp for the chiffons), however kain chiffon walaupun cantik but sadly kdg2  ia adlh agak jarang....

cantiknya dia....sapa nak beli tudung cantik blh tgk sini

ropol2 mcm ni ai blh terima lagi ok..

ada pulak style yg berenda2. kalau berenda yg kat hujung tepi tu ok lg..tapi adalah mcm kureng sedikit di mata saya, kalu yg jenis berenda kat badan tudung tu..mcm spider web pulak ai tgk.. pastu letak kombinasi warna yg kontra2..walawehhh....apakah?????

maybe some people suka pattern mcm ni, tapii it's a big NO-NO to me

spiderwoman....swooshhhhhhh!

and now, budak2 muda suka pakai shawl. belit2 dan berpin2. i am amazed at how these girls guna sampai 2-3 tudung/shawl sekali gus utk mendapatkan kesan tudung yg wallah! pin memang kena guna more than 3 i guess.
ada yg simple je style belitan shawl/selendang; which i myself dh pernah try. tp most of the time (selalunya 2-3 jam selepas itu), brooch saya ntah ke mana, senget benget, rambut pun terkeluar kat celah pipi... how?? how?? jeles tgk depa ni belit belit belit pastu siap, cantik pulak tu. apsal ai pakai x jadi mcm tu? maybe sebab ada spek ni kot, kacau....
and then ada pulak yg jenis pakai mcm serban..errrr konfius mek! mengapa dan kenapa???? siap nampak leher, ada tu nak bagi nampak subang bergayutan. what the??? ok next!!

ok, sapa berani gi opis pakai mcm ni?? hehehe

atau pakai turban mcm ni...perghhhhh

lagi satu yg jenis berbonggol2 ni...tak paham mek...ada yg sanggup beli bonggolan pelesu sebab nak dptkan the effect of kebonggolan di kepala..
nampak sgt weird ok!!
mcm character yg dlm citer alien vs predator tu pun ada ahkak tgk. kan? kan? pelik tetapi benar u ols...
apa2 pun mmg banyak lah style dan jenis2 tudung yg ada di pasaran skrg...even banyak jugak tutorial yg tunjuk cara nk pakai tudung & shawl belit2 ni..kena rajin gugel je. tapi yg penting, walopun kita nak bergaya sakan, up to date, jgn la pakai yg jarang2, yg singkat2....kena la ikut hukum ye...(elyn, ingat tu!!)

 

Last skali, suka tgk Heliza ni........

Akhir kata, pesanan utk diri sendiri yg masih banyak kelemahan.....
marilah kita cuba utk menutup aurat dgn lebih sempurna! Bashaaaa!!