Tak Berapa Best....

Macamana ni..... masalah negara sungguh...
Susah betul bab jodoh ni (not me of course, saya dah kawen maaaaa-nasib baik!!). Hmmm.....lelaki yang baik adalah untuk perempuan yang baik, dan perempuan yang baik adalah untuk lelaki yang baik.....

Orang kata,
it's better to be with somebody who loves u.. walaupun kalau both lovey dovey tu, kira bonus lah.
tapi kalau sebelah pihak je yang suka, tambah pulak ada confounding factors yg beriya-iya nak satukan...tapi yg masalah problemnya tuan punya badan takde hati. mcmana??

Orang kata lagi,
cinta blh dipupuk lepas kawen...org zaman dulu-dulu pun, ada je kes time nikah baru i pandang u, u pandang i...first time ever!

Dan orang berkata lagi,
ikut la pilihan mak bapak, kompem restu dah dpt... kena redha...berkaaaat hidup...

tapi tu laaa.. susah jugak jadi kakak manusia ni... kena make sure apa yang kita cakap ni blh diterima pakai... most of the time we tend to satisfy and give pleasure to others, and often forget about our own feelings.....

Jadinya... to you-know-who.... my prayers are always with you. I can only give you guidance and options..but you have to decide on ur own. From what I can see, you can either say No-apologize-get on with ur life OR Yes-lets proceed-redha-and find ways to make it work.
and yes, people will talk, hearts will be broken and there will be consequences for the decision u make tapi yg penting DOA, TAWAKKAL dan PERCAYA kepada Allah....
What ever your final say is (sure hope it's a good one), i'm right behind you!